Perfection is a completely subjective idea. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder. Set affordable standards for yourself and others. And learn to love yourself the manner you are in preference to basing your worthiness on what you present or produce in life. A lot of us are goal oriented. We see happiness as an give up result. A destination we get to and then the adventure stops. The reality is it in no way stops. You will by no means "get all of it completed".